Discovery and dating, built around you
Everything on Neurodivergent Dating is there to help you meet the right people calmly and safely, whether you want romance or friendship.
Matching that respects what you want
Each day we suggest people who fit you. The matching weighs age range, gender and who you are looking for, distance, how recently people have been active, the kind of relationship you want (including friendship), lifestyle habits such as drinking and smoking, interests and hobbies, and beliefs and values. Search controls let you narrow things down further when you know exactly what you are looking for.
Discovery feed
Go beyond the swipe. Scroll posts, photos and articles from people near you or with shared interests, and get to know someone from what they share before you message.
ID-verified badge
Verify your profile for free and a badge shows people you are genuine. It also helps the whole community keep catfishing out.
Member ratings
Every member has a rating that others can vote up or down, which rewards kind, meaningful interactions.
Anti-ghosting
Members who reliably reply earn a badge, and one-click replies let you let someone down nicely. No stress.
Explicit media filter
Explicit images are blurred automatically, so you decide whether to view them. No unwanted surprises.
Live chat groups
Moderated group chat with like-minded members. Admins are never far away.
Private chat groups
VIP members can set up a private group chat with up to 50 people, without handing out phone numbers.
Articles and spaces
Blog on the site to show more of who you are: a hot take, a real-life story or your own fiction.
Reporting and scam detection
We watch for non-genuine accounts and remove them. Anyone can report a profile in a tap.
Use it on any device
Neurodivergent Dating works in any web browser on a computer, tablet or phone, and you can add it to your phone's home screen like an app. Native iPhone and Android apps are available in selected countries.
Free, VIP and VIP+
| Classic (free) | VIP | VIP+ | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Profile, browsing, daily suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Messaging | A few messages a day, and reply to any VIP | Unrestricted | Unrestricted |
| Free ID verification | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search, chat rooms, see who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches, seen first | No | No | Yes |
Prices for each are on our price list.
Built on a safe and secure platform
Neurodivergent Dating is built in cooperation with our dating service provider, HubPeople. HubPeople is involved with the Online Dating and Discovery Association, an industry body that promotes best practice and high trust and safety standards. Read about every safety protection.
Free, VIP and VIP+ side by side
| Feature | Classic (free) | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Create an account, browse profiles, daily match suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Limited daily messages | Yes | Unrestricted | Unrestricted |
| Read and reply to VIP and VIP+ messages | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Free ID verification and badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive chat room, private group chats (up to 50) | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you; rewind swipes | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches; priority message and like placement | No | No | Yes |
| Top of the match stack; boosted visibility and Super Match add-ons | No | No | Yes |
Your questions, answered
Do I need VIP to use the main features?
No. Matching, browsing, posting and verification are all free. VIP removes the daily message limit and opens advanced search.
Is there a sensory-friendly way to use it?
You can browse and message at your own pace, and explicit images stay blurred until you choose to view them.