Date with confidence

Safety designed in, not bolted on

We combine automated checks with real human moderators to protect the community at every stage: content is screened as it is uploaded, unusual behaviour is spotted early, and you have simple tools to stay in control.

Identity and verification

• ID verification

  An optional government ID check that puts a visible badge on your profile, so people know you are real.

• Video verification

  A short live video check with a moderator, which confirms who you are without sending any documents.

• Age assurance

  Age estimation with further checks where they are needed, to keep under-18s out.

Privacy and control

• Safe usernames

  Your real name and email address are never shown publicly.

• Location privacy

  Other members see your nearest town or city, never your address or where you are right now.

• Instant blocking

  Block anyone and they can no longer contact you or see you.

• Easy reporting

  Report a member or a piece of content from inside the site in a couple of taps.

Community trust

• Member ratings

  Every member has a reputation score built from how they behave and the feedback they get.

• One-click feedback

  Rate an interaction up or down with a single click.

• Off-platform contact alerts

  A warning when someone tries to move your conversation to an outside app such as WhatsApp, a common scam tactic.

Active protection

• Behaviour monitoring

  Automatic detection of unusual or suspicious activity, to catch scammers and bots early.

• Content moderation

  Images, videos and text are screened on upload by automated checks and human reviewers.

• Swift takedowns

  Fast removal of unauthorised or harmful content when it is reported.

• Explicit image protection

  Potentially sensitive images are blurred, with a warning, until you choose to view them.

Support and standards

• Human support around the clock

  A real support team, by chat, phone and messaging, 24 hours a day.

• Safe dating guidance

  Tips and reminders built into the site, for safer decisions online and in person.

• Secure infrastructure

  PCI-compliant cloud hosting with full SSL encryption.

• Industry standards

  The platform is involved with the Online Dating and Discovery Association, which promotes trust and safety best practice.

Looking after yourself

• Take your time. There is no pressure to reply quickly or to meet.
• Keep conversations on the site until you are sure, and be wary of anyone who pushes to move to WhatsApp or asks for money.
• Meet somewhere public and quiet that suits you, and tell a friend where you are going.
• If something feels wrong, block and report. Our team is there 24 hours a day.

More on getting started in our dating tips for neurodivergent singles.

Your questions, answered

How do I report someone?

Use the report option on their profile or in your conversation. Our moderators review every report, day and night.

Will anyone see my email or phone number?

No. They are never shown on your profile, and you can talk on the site without sharing either.

Can I block someone quietly?

Yes. Blocking is instant and the other member is not told.